Many going through difficult time.
There’re many people out there going through difficult times. A lot of them don’t put their trauma on display. but they choose to deal with it quietly in their own way. stop hurting people with your tongue and actions. backbiting (Giba) is forbidden (harram). it involve speaking ill of someone in their absence, is a harmful act that can damage relationship. Not as you see it, is a significant sin in Islam, Abstain from it, promote kindness, respect, and positive communication.
The prophet muhammad (may Allah blessings and peaces be upon him) said that even if what is said about someone is true, it still constitutes backbiting, if it is something they will dislike to have mention about them. Now, what is your excuse? change your mindset. Always try be kind to all you meet. may Allah forgive us all.